Monday, August 16, 2010
The value of life. // 11:43 PM
Recently just heard about a friend trying to attempt suicide. Was really shocked and couldn't believe it. Just want to share somethings here, though I know I might not be in a good position to say such things. Just my opinion, though.
Life is always full of ups and downs. That's what they always say. And that's what we always go through. Life is never smooth sailing. We have our down times, we have our up times. But those are no excuse to take your own life.
Life is a very precious thing, we only have that one chance to live it. I know things might get too tough till it just breaks you apart, till you just lose the will to keep fighting. But whatever it is, life still goes on. I find it silly to take your own life cause you're gonna hurt a lot of people around you, when you get hurt by just that certain someone. Your mother who carried you in her womb for 9 months, your father who is the second person on this earth who carried you in his arms, your siblings and relatives who treated you as their own and cared for you, and your friends whom you created many awesome memories with.
It's not worth it to give up your life when things starts getting wrong. Many people who yearned a second chance to live never had the chance again. So you should cherish every day, every hour, every minute, and every second that you have now.
Yes, things could be hard. You find yourself struggling through life, you find yourself losing the will to keep fighting. But there's always people out there that's suffering more than you. And yet, they're still keeping their faith, believing that things would turn for the better. It all boils down to the mentality that you use to face problems, to face life. Be positive! There'd definitely be someday, somewhere in life whereby things would started getting better. Many would ask when is that day coming. No one knows for sure. All you can/should do, is just to keep fighting.
I would say crying doesn't help much. Yes it might help, to ease the feeling that you're going through now. But that's all that it can do. So, wipe the tears away, stand back on your feet, get on with life. Prove to God that nothing can bring you down if you don't wish to. Prove it to God that you're a strong child and deserves a better life than this. Prove it to God that you're not to be trifled with, prove it to God that you can do this.
Just want to say that, don't ever think about committing suicide again. Ever. That's the last things you should do even when you find it hard to breathe, find it hard to keep living. You have your friends and family around you.
You are not alone.
iloveyou❤